Most everyone hates to do chores. We do them because we have to, though we do gain a little satisfaction once the horrible chores are done! Marriages and relationships are not immune to chores and cleaning becoming problems and arguments. We are going to explore this a bit and talk about the common complaints […]
Priorities: Are You and Your Partners On Different Pages?
Differing priorities is another common reason couples struggle. Priorities can range from seemingly minimal things like what kind of coffee is important to buy, all the way to life direction priorities. We will explore some of these more common areas and provide some tools and tips to overcome these common roadblocks. “We don’t need to […]
What to Do When You’re At Odds with In-Laws
How many times can you think of that you yourself have had difficulties seeing eye to eye with your in-laws? Do you feel like the relationship with them is difficult and stressful? Well you are not alone! Let’s look at the common stressors which come from the in laws. Holidays: The Ultimate Obligation First and foremost, […]
When kids drive a wedge between you and your partner
We’ve talked money and sex, so next up – kids. Kids are wonderful, fun, and amazing to see grow. They also bring a lot of issues into relationships if you are not prepared for them. Couples tend to fight a lot when it comes to kids. This can be arguing about having kids all the […]
When Sex is Not So Sexy
Last post we talked about money and how finances can be a struggle. Now let’s look at sex and intimacy and how this can be a source of frustration and arguments. Sex tends to be the second biggest area which comes up for couples I work with. The complaints and issues range from not enough […]
The biggest reason couples fight – and how to resolve it!
Over the years, I have heard so many different reasons why couples argue and fight. Most, if not all couples, have had an argument at some point in the marriage, and if you have not, congrats – you’re the only ones! Arguments and fights happen, and it is OK. I have noticed the arguments that tend […]
Marriage is hard……and it should be!
How many times do you see Hollywood stories and movies about picture perfect couples? Boy meets girl, askes girl out, girl falls head over heels in love, they get married, have kids, buy a house, and live happily ever after. Lets be real and honest for a second……that kind of relationship does not exist!!!!!! Well […]
New Year, New You, New Way
What happened this year for you? Did you set goals for yourself or your marriage? Did you meet all of these goals? If not, what went wrong? What got in the way? The new year is a time for reflection on the previous years accomplishments and areas for growth. It is also a time to […]
Essential Guide To Surviving The Holidays
‘Tis the most wonderful time of the year! Happy Holidays to you! Turkey day, football, and family. What more could someone ask for during this great time of year! All of the corniness aside, this time of year is usually looked at by many as being fun, loving, and magical! For many however, this time […]
Life in the Fast Lane- Part 2
This is part 2 of the 2 part series on life in the fast lane, if you did not read Part 1, click here. This blog post focuses on the effect that this fast paced lifestyle has on our relationships with family, friends, kids, and significant others. We move faster and faster from this task to […]